Dear Love
Guru,
My best
friend and I both like the same man. How do we resolve this?
Sincerely,
Cleo
Dear Cleo,
Have you
asked the man whom he likes? Suppose he picks your friend over you, will you be
okay with meeting them as a couple? Who is more important to you? If you think
that your heart is correct and you love the man, you must tell him. Do not wait
for him to decide. Be honest with your best friend about how you feel about
him. If she still doesn’t want to back down and has the same level of feelings,
you have to decide whether your friendship is more important or the feelings in
your heart. Also, be patient with yourself. Be friends with the man for a
while. Get to know him a little. More often than not, you find that feelings of
infatuation fade away. Give your friend leeway to meet him as a friend and get
to know him too. If after a month or two, you both decide you still like him
and he can’t make up his mind, sit down and talk about the future. You might
enjoy the dating part but if it leads to something more serious, then you
should be on the same page about what your goals and needs are. Don’t make it
abstract. Be certain. Then make up your mind. If nothing goes in your favour,
please know that there are many more men for you and patience pays.
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